Where can you find men interested in committed relationships and old-fashioned dating?

I live in a large city, and I just can't find any man interested in a committed relationship or even dating. I always laugh when I hear gay guys scream for the right to marry when most won't even date! :o) Truthfully, I'm a vgl, nice, smart, down-to-earth guy, in great shape, etc. I just can't find guys who are looking for more than a one-nighter (or a weekend stand as the case may be these days).