Do you find blk bottoms attractive?

Hey guys im a black bottom and im confused i dont think im attractive but men tend to stare at me. I do get alot of stares from guys but i dont know if they are gay or not. I'm not out so i do all my meeting online and I am constantly rejected from tons of guys. I wonder if im ugly or if i just take bad pictures. What do you think do u stare at guys you think are hot? and are blk guys only attractive if they are tops?